BECOMING A SURROGATE 
Congratulations! If you have made the decision to become a Surrogate or are thinking about becoming a Surrogate, you
have the opportunity to help in a way that only few women can! Infertility affects many people, not just the woman who
can’t conceive a child. Her spouse, family and friends, although supportive of her, sometimes feel completely
helpless to her struggles. Many of these women have spent years trying to conceive and have undergone many expensive
infertility treatments before making the sometimes painful decision to choose surrogacy. The decision does not come easy,
mostly because they feel completely responsible or inadequate for the fact they cannot become pregnant. We
know this is not their fault and they are definitely not alone. Statistics show the numbers of women affected by and/or
undergoing infertility treatment rise every year. Yet, the choice of surrogacy is still difficult and in many cases this is
a couple’s last resort. Maybe you even know someone who has had the same difficulties with becoming pregnant.
The choice to help someone who has struggled with infertility realize their dream of having a child can be the most rewarding
experience of your life. Being a surrogate not only allows you to have a chance to give such a precious gift
but also gives you the opportunity to contribute financially to your own family, fulfill your dreams for starting a new business
or completing or starting your education.
Surrogate Criteria -
Women eligible to participate in our surrogacy
program must be in great overall health and weight, non-smoking/non drug-using, have had a least one child of her own without any difficulties with the pregnancy or delivery,
be between 21-40 years of age, have reliable transportation, must be emotionally and financially stable and have a good support system in place. Surrogates
must be committed throughout the entire process. You will be required to maintain and attend regular appointments at the clinic/medical
office (and OBGYN later), follow the medical protocol as directed by the physician, keep yourself healthy and limit any stress
when possible.
Psychological Testing- One
very important requirement will be your psychological testing. You will undergo counseling, screening and/or testing with a licensed
therapist/psychologist whose practical experience focuses infertility. On-going support will also be available to you
prior to any procedure, throughout the pregnancy and following the pregnancy.
Procedure- As a Gestational
Surrogate, you will undergo an Embryo Transfer procedure using the Intended Mother’s eggs or donor eggs which have been combined
with the Intended Father’s sperm or donor sperm. The transfer procedure could be based off a “fresh” cycle
or a “frozen” cycle, either way the medical protocol is similar. The Intended Parent’s physician will
evaluate the health of your uterus and fallopian tubes through tests administered by the physician’s office. Blood
work, a routine pap and physical will also be performed. The use of medications will begin once the physician has
determined you are clear to proceed. Medications will include birth control pills to regulate your cycle and/or synchronize
your cycle with the Intended Mother or Donor, Lupron, Estrogen and Progesterone may also be part of the protocol. Some
of which will be required to be injected either subcutaneous or intramuscular. Regular monitoring of your
lining and hormone levels will be performed during the medication cycle. Once ready, the embryo(s) will be transferred
to your womb and you will be required to rest for two to four days after the procedure. Within ten to fourteen days following
the transfer, blood test will be administered to measure your HCG levels. Optimally, a beta of 50 or more will determine
a pregnancy has occurred.
Compensation- First time Surrogates can expect to receive total compensation
ranging from $31,000-$36,000. Experienced Surrogates may receive total compensation ranging from $35,000-$45,000. Additionally,
health and life insurance will be provided to you at no cost, assistance with child care and housekeeping, lost wages for working
Surrogates, lost wages for spouses, travel expenses and other benefits such as gifts, pregnancy massages, etc. |